Children's Music is teaching for children music and how music plays the biggest part in how they learn anything
Best Kids' Music of 2009: #1 Here I Am! by Caspar Babypants
Best Kids' Music of 2009: # 2 Family Time by Ziggy Marley
Number 2: Family Time by Ziggy Marley
Best Kids' Music of 2009: # 3 Thank You for Joining the Happy Club by Billy Kelly
Number 3: Thank You for Joining the Happy Club by Billy Kelly
Intelligence at a price
Over excitability and sensitivity were two of the first clues that I was raising two gifted children. I love Webster's definition of excitability- "capable of being activated by and reacting to stimuli; a state of excitement or irritability". It fits perfectly, since there is rarely an in between for gifted children. They are either vividly happy, vividly sad, vividly angry, and the list goes on. Couple this with a deeper sensitivity to stimuli and situations than that seen in most children, and you might find yourself wondering, "What's going on with my child?"
Gifted children may find it difficult at times to find the "even ground" emotionally, especially when they are very young. Things like crowds, loud noises, music, or any kind of environment that is overly stimulating may evoke feelings that your child is unsure how to handle. If you find yourself in this situation, here are a few things that have worked for us.
- Teach your child self-calming skills. This may even involve you physically sitting with your child in a quiet place when you recognize them getting over the edge.
- Recognize what triggers your child's over-excitability so that you are better prepared.
- Make sure you are consistent with rules and consequences when your child crosses the line with their behavior.
- Even if your friends or family don't understand, remember that you are not alone.
I would love to hear from some of you. Have you found any great ways of helping your children work through these issues?
Best Kids' Music of 2009: # 4 Get Fruity!! by Apple Brains
Number 4: Get Fruity!! by Apple Brains
Best Kids' Music of 2009: # 5 Here Comes Science by They Might Be Giants
Best Kids' Music of 2009: # 6 Hello Night by Kesang Marstrand
Number 6: Hello Night by Kesang Marstrand
Best Kids' Music of 2009: # 7 Field Trip by Recess Monkey
Number 7: Field Trip by Recess Monkey
Best Kids' Music of 2009: # 8 Family Photograph by The Dreyer Family Band
Number 8: Family Photograph by The Dreyer Family Band
Why can't they just slow down?
However, it is widely agreed that giftedness comes from a combination of good genes and the experiences offered to the child. In other words, a biologically gifted child increases their IQ or abilities by drawing on life experiences. You will typically see this child asking lots of "how" and "why" questions as well as actively exploring everything around them. They are keen observers and are often able to understand things well beyond their years. Unfortunately, all of this sensory input comes with a price- emotional sensitivity and over-excitability.
It was once explained to me like this. We all have an "inner cup" that receives the sensory input we observe. Once this cup is full, we feel overwhelmed and will react in order to relieve that stress. Every one's cup is the same size, but the fact that a gifted child has a heightened sense of awareness allows them to fill their "cup" much faster than the average person. This can result in a variety of behavioral issues, and I plan to talk more about this in my next post.
Best Kids' Music of 2009: # 9 Beautiful World by Dog On Fleas
Number 9: Beautiful World by Dog On Fleas
Best Kids' Music of 2009: # 10 Dizzy by Lunch Money
Number 10: Dizzy by Lunch Money
Friday Free-for-All # 24
On Words that Rhyme with Orange, it's clear that Ross King's strength is pop tune composition, much in the fashion of musicians like Chris Von Sneidern or kids' music star Justin Roberts. Check out "Happy to Be Me" and "I Like to Play Outside" for evidence of King's radio-ready style. King has released several modern worship albums over the past 15 years, but Words is his first CD for kids. Words is a cute, well-produced collection of tunes, but based on his witty wordplay and songwriting chops I really think King's future is in television, so listen for a King-penned children's tv show theme song in the future.
Earthworm Ensemble - Earthworm Ensemble
Eclectic roots music by members of the Los Angeles-based Americana band I See Hawks In L.A. The band bring along The Chapin Sisters to round out their blend of country, garage schlock rock, bluegrass, and folk. The Ensemble's self-titled kids' album is full of songs about trains, the extraterrestrial planet-saving duo Bear and Dog, a hip hop jam about pizza, the rhythm workout "Bang a Drum," the weepy lap steel-flavored "We are Birds," the Muppets-meet New Orleans tune "Little Willy Buffalo," and the sweetly trippy "Goodnight, Little Spaceship." Lots of musical influences, yeah, but Earthworm Ensemble is a cohesive grab bag of great tunes for the whole family.
The gifted child
- Frequently reach developmental milestones early
- May talk later that their peers, but later language skills are above average
- Intense interest in reading and asks a lot of questions
- Seems overly mature intellectually, but might lag behind in other areas of development
- May show unusual sensitivities or preferences (i.e. food, clothing, sleeping patterns)
- Very active with a strong desire to explore things
This list is by no means complete, but I wanted to give you a sample of what a gifted child might look like. Perhaps you are in the same place that I was not so many years ago. I found myself wondering, "Is my child just overly strong-willed? Why don't they act like the other children? Is something wrong with them?" I plan to talk about this and more as I write this blog series on the topic of giftedness in children. Please join me in the conversation! I welcome your questions and comments about your own experiences in raising or teaching gifted children.
New Americana Music for Kids
***Rani Arbo & daisy mayhem***
Rani Arbo & daisy mayhem have been making "new roots music" together for a decade, with three previous CDs of fiddle-driven, harmony-filled tunes under their belt. The Middletown, CT-based quartet are adept at their frontporch, old time, loose-jointed but tightly-played style, no matter what song they attempt, and that's what makes Ranky Tanky work. Most of the album consists of covers, including "Tennessee Wig Walk," made famous by Bonnie Lou (Mary Joe Kath), also covered by Dan Zanes on House Party; "Kee-mo, Ky-mo," found on June Christy's "kids' album" The Cool School; New Folk artist John Gorka's "Branching Out;" Malvina Reynolds' "Morningtown Ride," one of The Seekers biggets hits; and "Bushel and a Peck" from the Broadway musical Guys and Dolls.
But despite the wide range of sources, all the songs sound like daisy mayhem tunes. Lots and lots of kids' musicians and bands attempt a "stylistic showcase" of sorts, especially on debut albums. Rather than attempt a rockabilly style here and a folk style there, followed by the obligatory reggae misstep, Rani Arbo and band maintain their own unique, cohesive sound, even on covers of well-known tunes like Cat Steven's "If You Want to Sing Out, Sing Out", The Meters' "They All Ask'd For You", Sheb Wooley's "Purple People Eater", and Tom Petty's "Wildflowers."
Great organic Americana music for the whole family. Let's hope we hear more from Rani Arbo & daisy mayhem in the future.